Flirting with shy gays can be very charming
Shyness does not have to be a weakness. On the contrary! Many men find shy gays extremely likeable. Unfortunately, however, this trait has a particular disadvantage: those affected often find it difficult to meet a partner.
Your introversion is all too often interpreted as arrogant and dismissive. What a pity! Yet many shy people and particularly affectionate characters who - once the ice has been broken - always manage to enchant those around them.
However, the internet offers some advantages here! It offers those who have problems approaching others openly a wonderful opportunity to show their best side. They do not have to look their "conversation partner" in the eye and can still communicate in a completely uncomplicated way.
The shy gay man - a dream partner?
As already mentioned, people who have problems approaching others actually always have a harder time meeting new people. Especially when it comes to flirting, this is (understandably) a big disadvantage.
However, once you have managed to conquer the heart of such a man, you have often found a long-term partner who will stand loyally by your side.It would therefore definitely be a mistake to call an introverted man "arrogant" or even "callous". On the contrary! Shy men are often far more sensitive than they may seem at first.
However, the fact that they often have problems expressing their feelings can be pleasantly absorbed with a suitable partner by their side. Once "thawed out", a great basis often develops quickly that stands for mutual trust and understanding.
How can the heart of a shy person be conquered?
Depending on the individual character, it may take a little patience to achieve the first successes. Moreover, it is possible that this character trait has only developed in the course of life. Perhaps the person in question was disappointed in the past? Perhaps the roots to a rather introverted behaviour lie in childhood? Perhaps the man is still struggling with the effects of coming out?
The good news: with understanding and empathy, it is sometimes possible to achieve great things here and to accept the other person as he is. Combinations with particularly extroverted men can also be very exciting here. Often the respective character traits can then balance each other out and provide even more balance within the partnership. After all, it is more fun anyway when one seduces and the other allows himself to be seduced, isn't it?