{"id":31333,"date":"2020-12-02T14:19:30","date_gmt":"2020-12-02T13:19:30","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/schwulekontakte.com\/?p=31333"},"modified":"2020-12-02T14:19:30","modified_gmt":"2020-12-02T13:19:30","slug":"many-men-suffer-from-premature-ejaculation","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/schwulekontakte.com\/en\/2020\/12\/02\/many-men-suffer-from-premature-ejaculation\/","title":{"rendered":"Many men suffer from premature ejaculation"},"content":{"rendered":"<h1>Widespread, often hushed up: premature ejaculation<\/h1>\n<img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-31334\" src=\"https:\/\/schwulekontakte.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/Jeder-fuenfte-Mann-leidet-unter-fruehzeitigem-Samenerguss.jpg\" alt=\"Every fifth man suffers from premature ejaculation\" width=\"1361\" height=\"757\" srcset=\"https:\/\/schwulekontakte.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/Jeder-fuenfte-Mann-leidet-unter-fruehzeitigem-Samenerguss.jpg 1361w, https:\/\/schwulekontakte.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/Jeder-fuenfte-Mann-leidet-unter-fruehzeitigem-Samenerguss-300x167.jpg 300w, https:\/\/schwulekontakte.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/Jeder-fuenfte-Mann-leidet-unter-fruehzeitigem-Samenerguss-1024x570.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/schwulekontakte.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/Jeder-fuenfte-Mann-leidet-unter-fruehzeitigem-Samenerguss-768x427.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1361px) 100vw, 1361px\"><p>When it comes to this topic, many men are (unfortunately) often overcome by a feeling of shame. Shame above all because almost everyone can certainly remember coming \"too soon\" at least once in their lives.<\/p>\n<p>The following applies in principle: A premature <a href=\"https:\/\/schwulekontakte.com\/en\/lexicon\/30325\/\" target=\"_self\" title=\"During ejaculation, the seminal fluid squirts out of the penis. Instead of orgasm, the word &quot;come&quot; is also often used. Men who climax have an ejaculation. What may sound a little technical at first is perceived by many gays as extremely erotic. After all, the ejaculation is often accompanied by loud moans. The crowd...\" class=\"encyclopedia\">Ejaculation<\/a> should not, of course, be a reason to question a whole relationship! It is not about having failed or not being \"man enough\".<\/p>\n<p>Often it's just a mix of excitement and passion that causes lovemaking to end early (at least for one partner).<\/p>\n<p>But: should a man regularly or particularly often have too early a sex <a href=\"https:\/\/schwulekontakte.com\/en\/lexicon\/come\/\" target=\"_self\" title=\"Coming is often used as a synonym for &quot;orgasm&quot; and plays an important role in dirty talk, among other things. Whoever talks about &quot;coming&quot; means - in a sexual context - the orgasm or coming to orgasm. Men squirt a few millilitres of sperm. This does not necessarily have to be &quot;pumped&quot; into the partner&#039;s body. Rather, they use...\" class=\"encyclopedia\">come<\/a>If there is a problem with the skin, there may also be a physical cause that needs to be medically diagnosed.<\/p>\n<p>This is the only way to find the reason for the complaints (and thus a possible solution).<\/p>\n<h2>Premature ejaculation: important facts in brief<\/h2>\n<p>First, it is important to note that ejaculation is only considered \"premature\" if it occurs within one minute of <a href=\"https:\/\/schwulekontakte.com\/en\/lexicon\/penetration\/\" target=\"_self\" title=\"The term &quot;penetration&quot; comes from Latin and means as much as &quot;to enter&quot;. When we speak of penetration, we mean the penetration of one thing, object or body part into another. In the sexual sense, this means the penetration of the cock into the anus or the vagina or the mouth. Or in other words: the sentence &quot;He penetrated...\" class=\"encyclopedia\">Penetration<\/a> takes place.<\/p>\n<p>The causes for this can be of various kinds - both physical and psychological.  Sometimes, the first clues can be found when those affected take a closer look at their lifestyle over the last few weeks. Has the stress level increased? Or could less sex be the reason why the pressure has suddenly been released particularly quickly? Questions upon questions that often cannot be answered within a few moments, but require a little more research (and possibly examinations).<\/p>\n<p>The good news: depending on the cause, premature ejaculation can be treated in many ways. Which type of treatment is advisable here depends on the individual diagnosis.<\/p>\n<p>From physical exercises, taking medication to surgical interventions, many things are conceivable here.<\/p>\n<p>However, those affected should in any case refrain from self-diagnosis and seek expert help - especially if they have an existing problem.<\/p>\n<h3>What are the possible causes?<\/h3>\n<p>Since many physical and psychological processes are responsible for male ejaculation, the cause is sometimes difficult to identify. While scientists used to believe that premature ejaculation was almost always psychological, nowadays physical causes are increasingly being identified.<\/p>\n<p>Common infections here include inflammation of the urethra or of the <a href=\"https:\/\/schwulekontakte.com\/en\/lexicon\/prostate\/\" target=\"_self\" title=\"The prostate gland is the male sex gland and therefore usually reacts very sensitively to touch. The prostate is about the size of a chestnut. It is located in the male body near or below the urinary bladder. One of its main jobs is to produce some of the sperm. However, the prosta can still...\" class=\"encyclopedia\">Prostate<\/a>. The field of neurobiology should also not be completely disregarded in this context. Because: different brain substances can also influence ejaculation.<\/p>\n<h4>Very important: address the issue openly within the partnership.<\/h4>\n<p>Shame and fear of failure often ensure that the topic of premature ejaculation is hushed up. In the worst case, one partner even blames the other.<\/p>\n<p>In this way, not only are possible physical causes often ignored, but the psychological problems are further strengthened.<\/p>\n<p>However, a look at various forums on the internet shows that no man confronted with this challenge need feel alone.<\/p>\n<p>In the first step, it usually helps to talk to your partner. If this is not possible, your best friend or another confidant may be able to offer advice and support (or at least a sympathetic ear).<\/p>\n<p>Among other things, communication can help to reduce psychological stress - an aspect that sometimes even ensures that the problem quickly disappears into thin air. And if not, there is certainly nothing more encouraging than a partner who accompanies their sweetheart to the doctor and in the search for a solution or treatment approach.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Also the superstar <a title=\"Dolly Parton donates one million dollars to the fight against Covid-19\" href=\"https:\/\/schwulekontakte.com\/2020\/12\/01\/dolly-parton-spendet-fuer-den-kampf-gegen-covid-19-eine-million-dollar\/\">Dolly Parton donates one million dollars to the fight against Covid-19<\/a>.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Widespread, but often hushed up: the premature <a href=\"https:\/\/schwulekontakte.com\/en\/lexicon\/30325\/\" target=\"_self\" title=\"During ejaculation, the seminal fluid squirts out of the penis. Instead of orgasm, the word &quot;come&quot; is also often used. Men who climax have an ejaculation. What may sound a little technical at first is perceived by many gays as extremely erotic. After all, the ejaculation is often accompanied by loud moans. The crowd...\" class=\"encyclopedia\">Ejaculation<\/a> When it comes to this topic, many men are (unfortunately) often overcome by a feeling of shame. Shame above all because almost everyone can remember coming \"too soon\" at least once in their lives. Basically, premature ejaculation should not be a reason to end an entire relationship. <a href=\"https:\/\/schwulekontakte.com\/en\/2020\/12\/02\/many-men-suffer-from-premature-ejaculation\/\">Read more<\/a><\/p>","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":31334,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[1,3986,525],"tags":[6095],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO Premium plugin v21.0 (Yoast SEO v21.8.1) - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>Viele M\u00e4nner leiden unter einem vorzeitigen Samenerguss.<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"M\u00e4nner, die unter einem vorzeitigen Samenerguss leiden, sch\u00e4men sich oft. 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