Poppen is a very colloquial word and stands for sexual intercourse.
Popping is a - also colloquial or vulgar - word for fuck or fuck. It is particularly common, for example, in chats or messenger histories, when the aim is to turn each other on a little or to arrange a real-life sex date.
Why sex can also be described with the word popping, among others, is not clearly explained. Some people probably see a certain similarity to the popping of a champagne bottle when the cork is released.
The reasons for meeting for spontaneous popping are many and varied. Sometimes it's about showing love as a couple, sometimes it's just about the pleasure of sex. However, especially when there is explicit talk of "popping", love is often less in the foreground.
Who wants to fuck usually wants to fuck and to the Orgasm come. Deeper feelings cannot be derived - at least not from the word. Some gays, however, also use the term, among other things, to refer to them in their Dirty Talk to include. However, the word is no longer really shocking for most people.
In order to find like-minded gay people who also want to fuck, it is advisable to either visit cruising areas or search on the internet. Many relevant sex platforms prove to be a helpful place to start when it comes to finding one (or more) partners to fuck.
As a rule, it always makes sense (and is fair!) to play your cards close to your chest. If you really only want to fuck and are not looking for love, you should tell the other person exactly that. Equipped with Condom then nothing stands in the way of a particularly exciting sex adventure.