5 Flirting Tips for the Perfect Video Chat in the Corona Pandemic
Many gays currently know the problem: where in the past "live"If you have been dating and flirting for a long time, you now have to take contact restrictions and video chat into account. In order to still maintain the chances in virtual dating, it is important to pay attention to a few points.
True to the motto "The eye eats with you", it should not be forgotten that it is often the "little things" that decide whether or not a follow-up date is arranged. But what exactly are these details? What does the (still virtual) counterpart pay attention to? With the following tips, nothing should go wrong.
Tip No. 1: Please tidy up before the video chat!
... at least the part that is captured by the webcam. Because: a messy environment can lead to a digital date literally falling through on several levels.
Questions quickly arise in the other person, such as "Is he always like that?", "Doesn't he have his life under control?" or "Aren't I worth it to him that he at least clears the air a little?". Don't misunderstand!
Of course, no one should pretend to be dating! However, if you tidy up a little, you will not only ensure a harmonious camera image, but also that a cosy atmosphere is created.
Tip no. 2: Stay on task
Admittedly: A real date is certainly always nicer. Nevertheless, the person you're talking to naturally deserves 100 per cent attention. Absolute no-goes in this context? Painting on the tabletop, putting together a puzzle or swiping boredly on your smartphone.
Does it all sound a little unrealistic? But it's not! Anyone sitting at their PC at home and chatting is often inevitably preoccupied with everything in front of them. Sources of danger of this kind are therefore best placed out of sight.
Tip No. 3: Check the video chat technique
Of course, no high-tech equipment is needed for virtual dates. Nevertheless, it is of course only an advantage if the camera shows a clear picture and the conversations are not undercut by noise and similar disturbing factors.
Many technical devices for domestic use are not expensive, but offer a solid basic foundation. If you then add the right lighting, you create great conditions for exciting conversations.
Tip No. 4: A well-groomed appearance
Anyone who works in a home office knows that it is currently even theoretically possible to go "to work" in pyjamas. But: for reasons of esteem alone, it makes sense to dress up for a virtual date just as much as for a "real" one.
In this way, the message "You are important to me and I want to please you!" can be conveyed - quite subliminally, but nevertheless in a pleasant way. A compliment that does not need a lot of words!
Tip No. 5: An "intimate" atmosphere
Who wants to flirtif he has the impression that his counterpart is not alone in front of the PC?
Roommates, siblings and co. should of course not be present on the virtual date. Not even "just" in the same room. Otherwise you will quickly get the feeling that you are being watched.
It is much more respectful - for all involved - to retire to a room for the video chat and thus ensure the necessary peace and quiet. This way it is often easier to talk about one's own feelings.
Conclusion
The success at the Online Date is influenced by several factors and not only by what is said. If you want to be on the safe side, you should always remember that the virtual date should not be very different from the classic meeting.
And here, after all, factors such as respect, a well-groomed appearance and a pleasant private sphere are simply part of the package for many people anyway. Never change a running system...
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